A Life Update

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Itโ€™s been a while since Iโ€™ve done a diary style life update. None of my blog post ideas for this week were grabbing me passionately so I thought Iโ€™d just share whatโ€™s new instead.

Blog and job wise things are going really well. I generally expect January through March to be my slowest period of the month, because that has been the case for the past 3 years. However, last month was โ€ฆ Read the rest

Tips For Coping With Facebook Politics And Avoiding Conflict

Iโ€™ve been seeing a lot of people writing about how tired they are of Facebook content being so focused on politics right now. I have felt that way myself. Iโ€™ve been seeing this sentiment expressed by people on both sides of politics. Iโ€™ve been thinking about this concept of everything being so black and white and intense right now, and how to stay calm. Iโ€™ve come up with a few thoughts that have helped me quite a bit the last โ€ฆ Read the rest

Our Flexible Food Budget

I first got serious about living frugally and saving money about 5.5 years ago. I was in college and it money was tight. I quickly realized that while most of our bills such as rent, car insurance, and so on were not flexible at all. However, a few bills were We could use sweaters and blankets so that we could keep the thermostat down. We could turn off lights or appliances that werenโ€™t in use to save on electricity. However, โ€ฆ Read the rest

9 Years Of Dating

It just hit me on New Years Eve that it was the 10th one that I have spent with my boyfriend. We hit our 9 year dating anniversary back in October. We spent that first new years eve together after dating for just 2 months, and weโ€™ve been together for each one since.

This whole year (until our anniversary) we will be celebrating things for the 10th time. 10 seems like a significant number. So the fact that weโ€™re still โ€ฆ Read the rest

Ehlers Danlos Syndrome Without Pain?

Disclaimer: I am not a doctor, geneticist, etc. This is my personal experience iwth getting an official geneticist diagnosis for ehlers danlos syndrome without chronic pain.

A while back I shared a blog post about my diagnosis process with ehlers danlos syndrome. It seems to me that more and more people are learning about and getting diagnosed with ehlers danlos syndrome. I have no idea of that is statistically true, it just seems like I am hearing about it โ€ฆ Read the rest

5 Completely Painless Low-Calorie Food Swaps

I decided to work on trying to lose weight a little over a year ago. My boyfriend was ready to make a lifestyle change and I wanted to support him by joining in myself. He was on a specific plan (Nutrisystem) but it required that he purchase a few grocery items to supplement the food they sent him. I started looking around online to find low calorie swaps to make it easier to cut calories. I saw all kinds of โ€ฆ Read the rest

What To Expect First Gynecological Exam

This post has some TMI in it. Itโ€™s about gynecological exams (pap smears). Please discontinue reading if this subject bothers you.

I have a confession. I put off my first gynecological exam for a few years. I was told by one doctor at 18 that I should start having one, but I had heard from others that itโ€™s okay to wait until 21. I asked about this and the doctor gave me the go-ahead to wait. However, I knew when โ€ฆ Read the rest

Industrial Piercing Pain and Experience

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I had an industrial piercing done on my right ear a little over 10 years ago. I havenโ€™t really thought much about the piercing in several years, but I have recently been considering letting it heal closed. This got me reflecting on why I made the decision to begin with. I thought my experience would be worth sharing here on the blog because it was so different than what I had in โ€ฆ Read the rest